I& #39;ve had some major wins. I& #39;ve fought hard for every single one of them, and I& #39;ve been extremely lucky too. But I& #39;ve also had some major losses, and times where it just was NOT MY SEASON. Times when nothing went right, no matter how hard I tried.
Or times when many things DID go right, but I didn& #39;t always get EVERYTHING, and those could be really hard too! Sometimes, failure was due to inexperience, something I could have done better, and could learn from, and sometimes, it was pure randomness and I missed out.
The biggest lesson I learned in those times when things were NOT MY SEASON is that 1) seasons change, and things will come around again and 2) no & #39;no& #39; is forever, unless you don& #39;t adjust your strategy, and you give up.
I think a lot of folx don& #39;t want to talk about failure, it& #39;s painful! It& #39;s natural and understandable to only present the good things, but I want to assure you, that the coolest person you know has wanted something and didn& #39;t get it. We& #39;ve all gone through it.