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REASONS WHY I’M SINGLE A THREAD:
DISCLAIMER: not bashing anyone, just speaking my truths!
Honestly I am absolutely ENJOYING my season of singleness, I’ve learned so much about myself this past year and a half than I’ve ever known!
I’m currently trying to grow as a young woman and I just don’t want any distractions (anything that will lead me away from God.)
I want to be able to hear God CLEARLY when he shows me the MAN for me. If we not equally yoked, ion want it. Patiently waiting on my Ephesians 5 man!
I am trying to become a Proverbs 31 woman. The woman described was a B.O.S.S , I can’t attract my Ephesians 5 man if I’m up to par.
-Proverbs 31:10-31
-Proverbs 31:10-31
I fall deeper in love with God, myself, and life everyday and I’m not ready to invite someone into my world yet.
I want a love that won’t compromise my peace. I’m just now learning to protect it. I feel like I let men disrupt it so easily and it sets me on this negative path.
I’m tired of trying to “navigate” men and their feelings. I value my time and one thing I’m not finna do is keep guessing whether or not I’m worthy. I’m a QUEEN (a rib if you will) and will be treated as such.
I know my worth. I want my man to know his worth.. just cause a boy in a man’s body is claiming King don’t mean he out here acting like one. I’m not marrying (or even entertaining) someone who does not see himself as such.
I’m still learning to set healthy boundaries, stand up for myself, love myself and put God first in “relationships” with men (and ALL things.) Toxicity is not for me.. y’all got it.
Wife, girlfriend, and “talking” are not synonyms... I tend to blend the words and their meanings often which effects how I date negatively, I think this may have to do with my attachment style.
I have to stop “submitting” to men who are no where near husband material. cause “if you can tell me what to do, then you can tell me what to do. But if you can’t tell me what to do, then you can’t tell me what to do.” -Jill Scott
Men instinctually are protectors, Women are instinctually givers. I say this because I usually don’t feel protected by men (when the sit. is not platonic) and will naturally “give” myself fully ignoring this discordance.
I said it once and I’ll say it again. I feel my emotions to the EXTREME. So when I love, I love hard (which is why I hardly love.) My love has NEVER been matched. Cause baby let me tell you this, what I require... I can reciprocate. I refuse to waste energy 
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I’m a hopeless romantic (I read too many romance bookshttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen">) and that is just not the trend for a lot men right now!
I get caught up so easily in what could be instead of what actually is (it be the fake scenarios for mehttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤦🏽♀️" title="Frau schlägt sich die Hand vors Gesicht (mittlerer Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Frau schlägt sich die Hand vors Gesicht (mittlerer Hautton)">) which is why I’m currently learning discernment! Great weapon for the spirithttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😊" title="Lächelndes Gesicht mit lächelnden Augen" aria-label="Emoji: Lächelndes Gesicht mit lächelnden Augen">
Single because love is a real and raw emotion that people play with everyday and I ain’t finna be played with at my big age. Go play witcha mama.
I’m not interested in being gaslightedhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙄" title="Gesicht mit rollenden Augen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit rollenden Augen"> that’s the trend these days too! I’d pick up on it but wouldn’t say anything and I don’t want to revert back to that.
Single cause I am 100% scared of y’all. Women are dying everyday at the hands of men annnnddd my anxiety gone get the best of me every time.
The approach is ALWAYS sorry (I would actively experience this and still entertain the foolishness, but not no more!)https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen"> I haven’t encountered anyone with manners yet!! one day somebody gone approach me the correct way though.
I’m am TRAUMATIZED after previous encounters. “Let me tell y’all how fast I be putting 2 and 2 together” <- ion wanna have to add up anything, no one knows how to be upfront with their intentions anymore (not even me sometimes)
I’m still trying to learn to accept myself as I was designed so i know I’m not ready for a relationship.
Yall (men) are SOOO wrapped up in sex that it actually disgusts me. I hear how some of yall talk and it’s just not it. Yall so uneducated on the matter that I be ready to choke slam some of y’all. Ignorance IS NOT bliss.
Lastly, God gone make it hurt until you let it go <- I’m trying to heal and learn forgiveness!
