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Oyinkan you harassed me for a relationship from September 2018 up until October 2019. One full year of harassment even though I was consistent in telling you I had zero romantic attraction towards you. You refused to take no for an answer. https://twitter.com/lady_yinn/status/1319982680423890944">https://twitter.com/lady_yinn...
We had mutual friends and when we all hang out together at a friend’s place I couldn’t be in simple sports bra and shorts because you’d then proceed to sexualize me and make comments about my body and so I’ll have to get fully clothed.
I have eye witnesses who were witnesses to the numerous times I told you I didn’t want a relationship with you and I wasn’t attracted to you sexually or romantically.
Despite this you went lying to everyone you came across on the TL and events telling them I was in a relationship with you. You went as far as trying to convince me to join a throuple with you and your partner at the time even when I had stated clearly that I felt nothing for you
Let’s not forget the fact that you outed me twice out of spite and jealousy when you knew I wasn’t out yet. Once to my family at a potluck where you decided to tell a room of people that I was a gay who kept giving you Ls. The second time to a news article you gave a statement...
I made on a private group chat with my full name. When I confronted you about this you said you thought my full government name was a pseudonym. How do you not know the name of the person you have been harassing for a year ?
You capitalized on our friendship to lie to me, manipulate and gaslight me. Faking panic attacks and multiple sicknesses to get attention.
On one occasion you lied you were having a panic attack and insomnia and invited me to your hotel room because you couldn’t sleep. I was ill and I told you this but when I showed up you spent the entire night trying to initiate sex.
I fought of advances and finally was able to get sleep by insisting I wasn’t well and not in the mood for sex. The next morning you continued with attempts to initiate sex and at this point I was ready to give in to let you stop pestering me.
However I was too disgusted to continue and I told you I couldn’t go on with it, you asked to pleasure me instead and I said I didn’t like being touched. That was the only way you let me be. So how are you different from a Nigerian man?
You then went around telling mutual friends that I had had an “unmutual” sexual encounter with you. Whatever this means but you dey ment sha.
When I got tired of the harassment and made a move to cut you off, you threatened to commit suicide and started telling my friends I had made you suicidal and you couldn’t continue living if I wasn’t in your life. If that isn’t prime abuse I don’t know what is.
It took over two months, a group chat and multiple video calls for you to admit to any of the things you did. You kept lying on those calls till I had to pull out receipts for mutual friends to see what you really were capable of.
You lied to us again and said you didn’t recognize the person that had done these things and promised you’ll get therapy. Wether you got therapy or not na you sabi but imma need you to not act oblivious on the TL.
