"Pass the salt."

vs.

"Could you please pass me salt?"

What& #39;s the difference?

One is a command—an ORDER. The other is a polite request.

The difference is enormous.

Yet how many men are ORDERED by their girlfriends/wives to do things on a daily basis, and think nothing of it?
Pay attention & you& #39;ll hear this ALL the time.

Women issuing orders to the men they supposedly love:

"Come here."

"Hold this."

"Get the baby& #39;s bottle for me."

"Don& #39;t book the tickets yet."

"Don& #39;t forget the keys!"

"Pick up some milk on your way home."

"Hurry up!"
When you obey & comply with her commands/demands, you instantaneously become her CLOWN and her BITCH.

"Sorry babe, I only take orders from police. And even then, they better have guns pointed at me."

Unlike all her ex-boyfriends (and her father), that shit don& #39;t fly with you.
I was on a bus once, standing room only.

A woman in front of me was holding a baby & a folded stroller.

She needed to set the stroller down, but had no place to do so. So she extended it to me (a stranger) and said, I shit you not:

"HERE, HOLD THIS."

I replied: "No thanks."
She looked at me in total astonishment.

Immediately another passenger took the stroller. She started muttering terrible things about me.

I& #39;m a good citizen. I would have helped her if she had asked me nicely.

But I don& #39;t take orders.
While we& #39;re at it, don& #39;t fall for the "I need you to" BS either.

"I need you to move your car."

No, you NEED to phrase your request in a more respectful way.

Huge numbers of women today are not used to speaking to men respectfully.

It& #39;s up to you to train her differently.
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