Read on Twitter
mom: sentimental attachment to otherwise unremarkable things, remembering little details about random interactions (again, bc we& #39;re sentimental lol), indecisiveness, taking a lot of shit to avoid confrontation, oh and apparently we look alike https://twitter.com/whyaredads/status/1313171879767797760">https://twitter.com/whyaredad...
dad is a bit difficult bc i try my hardest to be the opposite of the shit person he is, but on a base level: stubbornness, inability to ask for/accept/admit you need help (so..pride?? i mean he would order ppl around to do shit to "help" him but help in a meaningful way? no sir)
oh and i guess family trauma. i have him to thank for that, but i know he is the way he is bc his family fucking sucks. and this is why i& #39;ll never try to communicate with my ancestors, there is some evil on that side of the family i& #39;m not interested in fucking with lol
i also used to have a very bad temper which i also "got from him", and 0 self confidence but in hindsight both of these things were a product of being around a monster during my formative years
anyway idk that person anymore!!!!! thank god my mom is an angel
the more i think about it, the more i realize my brother and i both are quite different from my mom personality-wise despite her being the person that raised us. i& #39;m struggling to think of other traits we& #39;ve inherited from her. he and i are pretty similar (he is more annoying)
when i think of my mom i think of a soft-spoken and strong lady, a person that was unjustly thrown into adulthood at the age of 19, an introvert who loves being around people she loves, and someone that is extremely loved by the people she chooses to keep around now
i see a woman who despite being strong as hell in my eyes my whole life, fucking kicked the shit outta the past 4 years in a way i would have never imagined. i see a woman that the devil himself tried to break down over 31 years and failed. i could not be more proud of her
i realize now i am so far off the original point of this thread lol but these r my thots~
