CIS men in Heterosexual relationships: we need to talk. Tonigjt I heard about another couple who have split in the past 6 months. That makes 3 I& #39;ve heard of in the last week.
Some things you need to know: 1/?

The number one (by a huge margin) determiner of the success of a het relationship is the emotional availability of the man. Full stop. That is partly displayed by what& #39;s called "responding to bids for attention." 2/?

This happens when one person says "make me a tea?" or "let me tell you this funny thing that happened at work." or in some way asks for just a few moments of you time. The number of those you ++ respond to is directly linked to how long your relationship will last. 3/?

How much time this evening have you spent on your phone? Or working at your computer? How was her day? What was the best part? Do you have any idea? Go. Ask. Her. 4/5

I guarantee on your deathbed you won& #39;t say "if only I& #39;d just spent a few more hours working." But if you come home a week before Christmas and find a note saying why she& #39;s taken the kids and left, I guarantee on your deathbed you& #39;ll ask "why didn& #39;t I just pay more attention? 5/5