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This is kind of a vent from like... two days ago lol but it& #39;s not the first time I& #39;ve felt this way so I feel like saying it again... and on main this time because damn.
Please read the whole thing if I frighten you, I don& #39;t mean to
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I just truly, truly hate fake nice people.
Please read the whole thing if I frighten you, I don& #39;t mean to
I just truly, truly hate fake nice people.
Don& #39;t use pretty language and act sweetly to me if you& #39;re just going to dump me to the side at the first moment you get. Don& #39;t act like we& #39;re friends if we& #39;re not.
I& #39;m not a very social person. It& #39;s not every day that people are begging to talk to me. My feelings are played with.
I& #39;m not a very social person. It& #39;s not every day that people are begging to talk to me. My feelings are played with.
Where they act so polite and good to me, and so generous... but they are completely fine betraying that the next minute because I& #39;m "not really that close to them." Of course I& #39;m not, because I never am.
I am someone who really cherishes my friendly relationships.
I am someone who really cherishes my friendly relationships.
When you act that nice... I believe you truly like me. I believe you really want to be closer to me. If you don& #39;t, then stop it.
Playful rudeness has always been something that bothered me a lot, and for some reason people find me
Playful rudeness has always been something that bothered me a lot, and for some reason people find me
weird for that? I& #39;m sorry I don& #39;t like people who are supposed to be supporting me being assholes to me and thinking it& #39;s funny. I just don& #39;t.
So these people... who do exactly that because we aren& #39;t actually that close... I simply hate them lol
So these people... who do exactly that because we aren& #39;t actually that close... I simply hate them lol
Don& #39;t approach me at all if you& #39;re going to do that to me. Don& #39;t treat me like your best friend if you don& #39;t mean it. It would save me so much grief.
Soooo, uh... Vent done.
Soooo, uh... Vent done.
Oh yeah. And if you and I have issues, don& #39;t fucking pretend they don& #39;t exist. Own up to it. Tell me you want it, and we can move on. Don& #39;t act like nothing ever happened, it& #39;s gross.
This has been happening to me too over the years and I feel like it& #39;s in the same vein.
This has been happening to me too over the years and I feel like it& #39;s in the same vein.
For some reason people think I& #39;ll just.... forget? Is it because I am normally passive? Because I don& #39;t like fights? It could be. But I don& #39;t forget. You just look stupid when you pretend I& #39;m okay with it, and I& #39;m not. Stop it.
It& #39;s dishonest and I& #39;d rather fix things directly.
It& #39;s dishonest and I& #39;d rather fix things directly.
TL;DR: Hopefully it& #39;s not too controversial to... hate dishonest people? lol. That& #39;s all this is.
Maybe they don& #39;t even intend to be rude in their ways, but disrespecting me even casually will make me dislike you. I& #39;m just like that. Please don& #39;t do it.
Maybe they don& #39;t even intend to be rude in their ways, but disrespecting me even casually will make me dislike you. I& #39;m just like that. Please don& #39;t do it.
So anyways... this hasn& #39;t explicitly been on my TL lately, I& #39;m just angsty. I& #39;ve had some questionable experiences with some hosts on Discord. To whoever has read this far, have a nice evening. https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙏" title="Folded hands" aria-label="Emoji: Folded hands">
Okayyy an additional statement because I& #39;ve realized this entire thread is sort of vague and as someone who is sickeningly sweet so strangers myself I think I need to clarify that there& #39;s a difference between being approachable and warm to even people you& #39;re not that close with
and tricking those people into believing you& #39;d like to further the relationship.
The scenarios I vented about in this thread are ones where an individual pushes themself close to me and we seem to hit it off; they& #39;ll tell me personal information, and act like they value my time.
The scenarios I vented about in this thread are ones where an individual pushes themself close to me and we seem to hit it off; they& #39;ll tell me personal information, and act like they value my time.
In reality, I was simply another person to talk to that evening. It didn& #39;t mean anything at all. These people do not value the sensitive things we share together, no matter how long it seems I& #39;ve known them. They just exercise sometime later that they never really cared.
What I wanted to say here is that it& #39;s a jerk move to act like you want somebody in your life in such a way and then turn around and disrespect that. I have had people I& #39;ve known for YEARS do this to me and it just bothered me. If you& #39;re simply nice to your peers because that& #39;s
how you are, then you& #39;re wonderful. You& #39;re probably not misleading anyone by just being a kind person lol.
I just... wish that people wouldn& #39;t suck up to me if they didn& #39;t really want to be as personal as they make me be with them. It hurts.https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😔" title="Nachdenkliches Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Nachdenkliches Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💔" title="Gebrochenes Herz" aria-label="Emoji: Gebrochenes Herz">
I just... wish that people wouldn& #39;t suck up to me if they didn& #39;t really want to be as personal as they make me be with them. It hurts.
