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thread on my bi experience because i feel like it 
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I am an attention whore, itās in my blood, thereās no way around it. It comes with my ADHD territory. Interruptions and wanting to control conversations and what not. If Iām listening to you Iām trying VERY HARD!!! (Which I do a lot, I know, Iām very charitable)
Iād always known I liked women, but I felt like I liked men more.... so learning it was /attractive/ to men for me to be into women was enticing to me! I could be myself AND be given more attention? SHOCK AND AWE!
Long story short, Iāve done myself disservice in the past, in the name of attention, by letting my sexuality be perceived as a ~perk~ of dating me, rather than just a thing that doesnāt really affecting who Iām dating at all
We all have things we overshare (right? uguys?) and if youāre like UGH LAUREN WE GET IT YOURE BI then yay! I did it! my sexuality is now something I talk about like being vegetarian or obsessing over Ari Aster! Not a secret, not a big deal, just a thing I am.
Iāve noticed the bi feminine/masculine experiences reflect the standard binary of women being chased/men being the chasers. While Bi women are HUNTED by couples on dating apps (no I donāt want to sleep with u & your ugly boyfriend) Bi men are much less likely to be open about it
Iāve talked to many Bi men and our experiences in love are always so different... it makes me feel (dare I say) privileged to be a bi woman and literally be called a UNICORN I mean WHAT IS THAT
Iāve started to digress because I canāt conduct the thought trains choo choo ok in the end I think the most important thing is sexuality is just an extension of someoneās personhood and not a bullet point. Me? I like talking, so ergo bingo boingo: I like talking abt sexuality
One day I might say Iām bi & hot because Iām bi! One day I might marry a man! One day I might marry a woman! Anyone can do anything & it doesnāt reflect their sexuality as a whole, or the sexuality of other people, itās just that one goober living their goobery truth.
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