Spoke w/ a junior resident about a tough case. He asked: How do you tell someone they have cancer? How do you comfort them?

I won& #39;t pretend to be an expert but explained to him my approach and I& #39;ll share one element for #medtwitter users who might find it helpful. A https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🧡" title="Thread" aria-label="Emoji: Thread">:
1st- this is a huge topic. @SAEMonline has some great resources on breaking bad news. But each situation will always be different. There are so many variables and so much nuance- all of it way beyond the scope of a few tweets.
2nd- a cancer dx (or strong suspicion for it) shouldn& #39;t ideally come from the ED. Unfortunately, at my safety net hospital it is not uncommon. This reflects many issues with our healthcare system (cancer care in particular)- also way beyond the scope of this thread.
But say you& #39;ve given a (likely) cancer dx and in addition to coordinating next steps- outpt f/u, sometimes admission, more testing- you want to offer some minor reassurance (NOT false hope or foolhardy prognostication). What is there to say?
First, I like to stress to patients that they did the right thing coming to the ED π’•π’π’…π’‚π’š. Even if it& #39;s wide spread and we wish they& #39;d come in sooner. The pt also could& #39;ve waiter longer and didn& #39;t.

Cancer can make people feel powerless. I want to reinforce their agency.
Second, I talk about our specialists and the road they took to become experts. That I& #39;m going to consult/refer to someone who is very smart and knows infinitely more about malignancies than I do.

And I& #39;ll spell it out. I& #39;m entrusting someone with your care who...
Was an excellent high school student. Then an excellent college student. Who busted their behind and went to medical school for 4 years. Then studied internal medicine for three years where they spent countless hours confronting problems like yours.
Then they did a fellowship for 𝒂𝒏𝒐𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓 three years to develop expertise treating cancer. And many go on to complete even more specialized training and research. A π’Žπ’Šπ’π’Šπ’Žπ’–π’Ž of ten years of training after college to even have the opportunity to care for you.
(A similar convo plays out for surg onc.) Ultimately, I am not just referring a pt to someone who knows more about cancer than I could begin to imagine. I am sending them to someone who has devoted their π’π’Šπ’‡π’† to understand and combat this disease.
And if you& #39;re going to have someone helping you to navigate a challenging time and scary disease, that is π’†π’™π’‚π’„π’•π’π’š who I& #39;d want on my team.
Of course, this isn& #39;t meant to ameliorate cancer diagnoses. But if conversations like this can offer even a small measure of reassurance- or make the next steps in cancer care seem just slightly less intimidating- I& #39;d argue it& #39;s a worthy endeavor.
But I& #39;m also interested to hear if anyone else on #medtwitter has unique approaches to these sorts of conversations in the ED. I would love to get any insights you all have to offer.
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