Read on Twitter
Why can& #39;t people comprehend the fact that, yes, their romantic I.D. is straight, but saying they are & that& #39;s why they& #39;re not w/ us isn& #39;t it. Because saying "Oh your cishet/straight" has 100% different connotation than "Oh you& #39;re cis & bi?" Plus yeah,they day that because theres-
So much aphobia in the community & the whole "If you wouldn& #39;t fuck a [guy/girl] you aren& #39;t really bi/pan/gay/a lesbian" & while I am not ace myself, I& #39;d imagine that& #39;d create doubt & insecurity, maybe not majority [or even at all] but still. & straight people generally, overall-
![So much aphobia in the community & the whole "If you wouldn& #39;t fuck a [guy/girl] you aren& #39;t really bi/pan/gay/a lesbian" & while I am not ace myself, I& #39;d imagine that& #39;d create doubt & insecurity, maybe not majority [or even at all] but still. & straight people generally, overall-](https://pbs.twimg.com/media/EhJG9SMU0AAbjtt.jpg "So much aphobia in the community & the whole \"If you wouldn& #39;t fuck a [guy/girl] you aren& #39;t really bi/pan/gay/a lesbian\" & while I am not ace myself, I& #39;d imagine that& #39;d create doubt & insecurity, maybe not majority [or even at all] but still. & straight people generally, overall-")
![So much aphobia in the community & the whole "If you wouldn& #39;t fuck a [guy/girl] you aren& #39;t really bi/pan/gay/a lesbian" & while I am not ace myself, I& #39;d imagine that& #39;d create doubt & insecurity, maybe not majority [or even at all] but still. & straight people generally, overall-](https://pbs.twimg.com/media/EhJG9c_U8AAaxPS.jpg "So much aphobia in the community & the whole \"If you wouldn& #39;t fuck a [guy/girl] you aren& #39;t really bi/pan/gay/a lesbian\" & while I am not ace myself, I& #39;d imagine that& #39;d create doubt & insecurity, maybe not majority [or even at all] but still. & straight people generally, overall-")
![So much aphobia in the community & the whole "If you wouldn& #39;t fuck a [guy/girl] you aren& #39;t really bi/pan/gay/a lesbian" & while I am not ace myself, I& #39;d imagine that& #39;d create doubt & insecurity, maybe not majority [or even at all] but still. & straight people generally, overall-](https://pbs.twimg.com/media/EhJG9oOUYAELKp5.jpg "So much aphobia in the community & the whole \"If you wouldn& #39;t fuck a [guy/girl] you aren& #39;t really bi/pan/gay/a lesbian\" & while I am not ace myself, I& #39;d imagine that& #39;d create doubt & insecurity, maybe not majority [or even at all] but still. & straight people generally, overall-")
Don& #39;t say shit like that [like yeah the "bro you haven& #39;t had sex? Are you gay???" & Shit like that, and maybe they do & I& #39;m just not seeing it, but yeah]
Plus you& #39;ll say fucking allies are in it & defend their use of the A but basically tell aces, aros, & agender people to fuck-
Plus you& #39;ll say fucking allies are in it & defend their use of the A but basically tell aces, aros, & agender people to fuck-
Off, like ???
Also a Tumblr identity? Like bro have you gotten off twitter, cause this isnt a Tumblr identity what are you on??? AVEN was founded in 2001, Tumblr was founded in 2007, and I& #39;m p sure aces & aros existed before 2001 at that, so uh????
Like do you mean "People on-
Also a Tumblr identity? Like bro have you gotten off twitter, cause this isnt a Tumblr identity what are you on??? AVEN was founded in 2001, Tumblr was founded in 2007, and I& #39;m p sure aces & aros existed before 2001 at that, so uh????
Like do you mean "People on-
Tumblr talking about identities" or do you GENUINELY, like w/ your whole chest, think that Tumblr was the origin of Asexuality & Aromantism??
Plus the whole "They don& #39;t face discrimination" yeah, if they& #39;re heteroromantic, they can happily [hopefully] get married, but they were-
Plus the whole "They don& #39;t face discrimination" yeah, if they& #39;re heteroromantic, they can happily [hopefully] get married, but they were-
Still classed as a mental illness in the past, some doctors/therapists will STILL deny the fact that that is your I.D. & no it& #39;s not the meds you& #39;re on, no it& #39;s not a late puberty thing, etc.
And there& #39;s still a lot of people who either say:
A: Its a modifier, not an identity-
And there& #39;s still a lot of people who either say:
A: Its a modifier, not an identity-
Like, it is tho what...
Or...
B: Its mostly [not always] caused by trauma, so they probably have some sorta dating trauma/sex trauma & that& #39;s why.
Also the fact that some of y& #39;all are so hung up on "Can have sex" & "Have sexual attraction" lemme explain in the way I get it:
Or...
B: Its mostly [not always] caused by trauma, so they probably have some sorta dating trauma/sex trauma & that& #39;s why.
Also the fact that some of y& #39;all are so hung up on "Can have sex" & "Have sexual attraction" lemme explain in the way I get it:
Ace & aro are both identities AND spectrums. Demisexual is technically under the ace umbrella for example.
Plus, yeah no attraction, but that doesn& #39;t automatically mean no libido. & doesn& #39;t mean you can& #39;t just... Have sex. Like it& #39;s not anything like this? Yeah some are sex-
Plus, yeah no attraction, but that doesn& #39;t automatically mean no libido. & doesn& #39;t mean you can& #39;t just... Have sex. Like it& #39;s not anything like this? Yeah some are sex-
Repulsed/would never do it, but that doesn& #39;t mean all? Like honestly thinking about how you got to the two places...
To me being LGBTQ+ means: -Not being cis and/or -Not being heterosexual OR heteroromantic & feel free to unfollow, block, softblock if you disagree :)
To me being LGBTQ+ means: -Not being cis and/or -Not being heterosexual OR heteroromantic & feel free to unfollow, block, softblock if you disagree :)
Also I wrote this at nearly 3AM so sorry if this thread makes no fucking sense grammar & spelling wise
