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Maybe one day we& #39;ll talk about the dos and don& #39;ts (says and not-says?) when offering your condolences to someone 
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Someone said I shouldn& #39;t worry because I& #39;ll also die soon and I& #39;ll see my brother againhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😲" title="Erstauntes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Erstauntes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😐" title="Neutrales Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Neutrales Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen">
I& #39;m sure he meant well but yhoo!
Someone said I shouldn& #39;t worry because I& #39;ll also die soon and I& #39;ll see my brother again
I& #39;m sure he meant well but yhoo!
Then the usual: "God has taken him. He gives and He takes".
But has God really?https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤔" title="Denkendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Denkendes Gesicht">
God doesn& #39;t kill people, does He?https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤔" title="Denkendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Denkendes Gesicht">
God is life and death came with sin (Satan)https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😅" title="Lächelndes Gesicht mit offenem Mund und Angstschweiß" aria-label="Emoji: Lächelndes Gesicht mit offenem Mund und Angstschweiß">
So are we not wrongfully blaming God?
Besides, before you say something like that, who told you I& #39;m a Christian?https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💀" title="Schädel" aria-label="Emoji: Schädel">
But has God really?
God doesn& #39;t kill people, does He?
God is life and death came with sin (Satan)
So are we not wrongfully blaming God?
Besides, before you say something like that, who told you I& #39;m a Christian?
"Don& #39;t cry. Time will heal. It& #39;s ok".
For real? I shouldn& #39;t allow myself to feel the pain and grieve?
I& #39;m probably overreacting because of the state of my heart right now but don& #39;t tell me time will heal. Time vele will heal but how about right now?
It& #39;s ok? What& #39;s ok?https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤔" title="Denkendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Denkendes Gesicht">
For real? I shouldn& #39;t allow myself to feel the pain and grieve?
I& #39;m probably overreacting because of the state of my heart right now but don& #39;t tell me time will heal. Time vele will heal but how about right now?
It& #39;s ok? What& #39;s ok?
"What happened?"
He died - That& #39;s what happened.
No offence at all but is it necessary to know all the details and how someone actually died? Will you sympathise more if you know exactly what happened?https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤔" title="Denkendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Denkendes Gesicht">
I& #39;m genuinely asking.
I probably think too much for my own goodhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😶" title="Mundloses Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Mundloses Gesicht">
He died - That& #39;s what happened.
No offence at all but is it necessary to know all the details and how someone actually died? Will you sympathise more if you know exactly what happened?
I& #39;m genuinely asking.
I probably think too much for my own good
"Death is part of life... I remember when my so and so died. It really hurt"
I get what you& #39;re trying to do. You& #39;re trying to convince me that you actually really truly understand what I& #39;m feeling EXCEPT you really don& #39;thttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😬" title="Grimasse schneidendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Grimasse schneidendes Gesicht">
We& #39;ve all lost people yes but every loss is differenthttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💔" title="Gebrochenes Herz" aria-label="Emoji: Gebrochenes Herz">
I get what you& #39;re trying to do. You& #39;re trying to convince me that you actually really truly understand what I& #39;m feeling EXCEPT you really don& #39;t
We& #39;ve all lost people yes but every loss is different
The Best https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😍" title="Lächelndes Gesicht mit herzförmigen Augen" aria-label="Emoji: Lächelndes Gesicht mit herzförmigen Augen">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😍" title="Lächelndes Gesicht mit herzförmigen Augen" aria-label="Emoji: Lächelndes Gesicht mit herzförmigen Augen">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😍" title="Lächelndes Gesicht mit herzförmigen Augen" aria-label="Emoji: Lächelndes Gesicht mit herzförmigen Augen">
A brief condolences and then talk about something completely unrelated and get the mind off things. End up laughing and talking about other things.
Anyways, this is just me. There are no rules to these thingshttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="♥" title="Herz" aria-label="Emoji: Herz">
It& #39;s the thought that countshttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😅" title="Lächelndes Gesicht mit offenem Mund und Angstschweiß" aria-label="Emoji: Lächelndes Gesicht mit offenem Mund und Angstschweiß">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤭" title="Gesicht mit Hand über dem Mund" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Hand über dem Mund">
A brief condolences and then talk about something completely unrelated and get the mind off things. End up laughing and talking about other things.
Anyways, this is just me. There are no rules to these things
It& #39;s the thought that counts
