Because I have more to say, a thread:
I have a list of common kinks I like going over, to gauge both interest and experience and see where we match. This is a) generally a very hot conversation and excellent foreplay, b) lets me know a lot more about what makes them tick, AND 1/ https://twitter.com/starlit_domme/status/1298029351586238465">https://twitter.com/starlit_d...

c) Importantly, my list is NOT just my own kinks, and I have the subject give their opinion before I give any indication of my own. This adds an extra layer of protection against influencing their opinion (e.g. by being & #39;willing to try& #39; something they& #39;re not actually into).

(I could do a whole other thread on power dynamics and consent and stuff, but this is not that thread, so I& #39;m just going to leave a side note that this is really important to me)