...Okay y& #39;all can I brag for a sec? Just had a phone sex date with a play parter and she said, "That was, and I& #39;m not exaggerating, the best long distance sex of my life." AAAAAHHHHH brb grinning like an idiot.
But also, knowing hypnosis is like a secret weapon for long-distance sex/dirty talk. I know all these great tricks for making you focus on/feel things I want you to feel, tying your thoughts up in knots, emphasizing subby headspaces... It& #39;s so fuckin& #39; cool!
Tho a weird thing about it is that in the hypno world, these tricks/tactics are PART OF OUR PLAY and so need to be negotiated (like, if someone dropped these into a scene w/o asking it& #39;d be YIKE), but outside hypnoworld they& #39;re just... very specific facets of dirty talk?
Like it was vaguely awkward to negotiate explicitly for this stuff today: "do you feel good about this specific sort of headgame that& #39;s basically just dirty talk but is extremely significant in some other part of my kink life?"
Relatedly, is it just CHEATING to use hypno-voice in non-hypno power play? Asking for a me.