Had an interesting conversation with Duduzile Maphanga on #SidebarWithSindi last night

Finances and relationships - always a tricky one to discuss

SO something came up during the convo and I& #39;m curious to hear your views on this matter

I dream big and I dream far

"One day when I& #39;m grown up I& #39;m going to drive a Mercedes-Benz"

It doesn& #39;t matter when this happens, but it& #39;s going to happen.

What happens when you& #39;re in a relationship with someone who is financially astute and just doesn& #39;t grasp the dream?

When I mentioned this big dream to Duduzile, her immediate response was "can you afford the car?"

Great question but what happens to the big dream?!

Do I now abandon it because "it& #39;s only a car and the one you have gets you from A to B just fine"?

Sidebar: husbae and I have this conversation every so often by the way (because I feel I deserved a push gift in the form of a luxury SUV and he doesn& #39;t understand quite get why anyone would get anyone a push gift and I& #39;m tired of explaining)