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since everyone is speaking up about their experiences i think its time to tell the the story of how me and so much other girls were harassed by the same boy #zobeldobetter (a thread):
before i start i jus wanna say that i wont be disclosing his name for personal reasons n i just want to share my story bc im tired of being quiet. it started around 1-2 years ago (for me) when he started making s*xual advances towards me. mind you i was 13 at that time 
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at first i brushed it off because of how uncomfortable it made me. it wasnt until he started ‘dating’ one of my best friends. it was a bit of an on and off relationship. but despite being in a relationship with her, whenever they were on ofc, he would ask girls and even my own
-friends for n*des. the first time he asked me was when i was asking him to do me a favor (around start of feb) and he told me yes in the condition i send him or if he could touch me i was obviously like no lol cus tf?? then mans even gave me a due date as if it was a homework https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">
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pass forward i just kept saying no. he would continue to keep saying the same thing like if he could touch me in places that is well obvs not supposed to be asked to girls my age?? despite me telling him off NUMEROUS times he instead groped my ass.
i was traumatised because this was the first time i was sexually harassed physically. i was not wearing anything revealing. i was wearing jogger pants and a hoodie.
i could go on and on about what he did to me so instead ill just summarize it and leave all the other things he said to me down there. he manipulated us. he used his ‘issues’ to get his way with us. he lied to us. he hurt us. i am not his only victim.
he would even spread nudes of girls’. one of the being one of my closest friends and seeing her n her image fall apart because of that broke my heart. he keeps telling these things about how these girls sent him nudes but NEVER how he pressured and manipulated them to do so.
the nights me and so much girls spent crying and thinking to ourselves why this happened to us is uncountable. no girl should ever feel this way. most of us felt as if it was our fault. only now did we realize it never was.
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not to mention his friends who defend him pa and told us to put us in his shoes?? like why dont you put yourself in our shoes. try being silent for years about something that’s traumatised and emotionally drained you (:
despite him apologizing so much times snd saying he’ll “change” he never stopped. only now after his parents and all his friends found out did he really apologize.
there were more things he said to me but that was when he had his old account which got deleted so i cant retrieve it anymore. before i end this thread i wanna say thank you to a few of my friends who helped me and inspired me to speak up
thank you @elenaleonxrdo @salmaweih @chantelleumali @bannezon @mzccortuna @chescacruzm @zoeysanluis @/tassja !! I don’t know if I could’ve done this without any of ur support (“:
I would also like to say thank you to his parents and family members. you guys didn’t have to say sorry to us girls at all but you did. im so sorry that you guys got pulled into this po ): we never meant to hurt your family. im saying thank you because they themselves apologized
-to us thru call. our intention was never to make you guys worry or hurt you any of you po. we just wanted to speak up because it seriously hurts so much to just be quiet. thank you po. the truth is I just want him to grow to be a better person.
I know he can change and i hope he does. when his parents apologized to us, we felt true sincerity to the point i actually cried when they were calling us (“: so again thank you talaga po
this ends my thread! kinda short i think but i really wanted to talk about it. girls please never hesitate to speak up and boys please try your best to stop this toxic culture. boys i hope you know you guys are very privileged and yes im sorry to all the other men who experienced
-the same thing as well. but to every other boy, please try your best to help destroy this misogynistic and sexist system.
thank you guys for reading! God bless and stay safe <33
fubu = f*ck buddy btw if ur wondering abt what he was talking abt in one of d screenshots. sorry for all the grammar mistakes )): i was kind of in a rush wen i was writing this
someone asked me if those were the only time he did those things to me and no it wasn’t HAHAHHA if only i had a time machine i would screenshot and record everything he ever said to me and my friends (:
