Making a breakup thread so it& #39;s easier to mute if anyone needs to stop hearing recounting of emotional abuse

[ tw Sexual abuse] it& #39;s fucking mind numbingly awful to be awake until 4am because I had a flashback of him choking me during sex and THEN asking me if it was okay and then to wake up a friend going "hey guess what he& #39;s saying about you This time"

[Emotional abuse, self harm] Like really, you& #39;re gonna accuse me of microaggressions? Thats what you got? You refused to let me talk about being in a bad place, threatened self harm when people don& #39;t wanna talk to you, and all you got is...I didn& #39;t wanna talk about. Earrings.

The statement that he never got to talk about his trauma is empirically, provably false, but guess what asshole I& #39;m not enough of a dick to prove it because that would involve screencapping his trauma dumps and unlike HIM I& #39;m not going to out people& #39;s triggers