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This is the father of my child, when I was with him he emotionally and physically abused me starting when I was pregnant.After our relationship ended he raped me and then proceeded to harass me for years. So, so horrific to see that heâs still exactly the same. https://twitter.com/jess58727148/status/1276652299016982529">https://twitter.com/jess58727...
This is the father of my child, when I was with him he emotionally and physically abused me starting when I was pregnant.After our relationship ended he raped me and then proceeded to harass me for years. So, so horrific to see that heâs still exactly the same. https://twitter.com/jess58727148/status/1276652299016982529">https://twitter.com/jess58727...
After the rape trial fell through due to insufficient evidence he proceeded to write Facebook statuses about me saying I was a liar, telling people where I went out on nights out etc. I had people screaming at me in clubs saying I was a lying slag, death threats from people
Those years were some of the lowest points of my life and a lot of the reason I suffer greatly with mental health issues to this day.
He controlled every aspect of me. He cut up my clothes that he deemed âunsuitableâ, he controlled all my social media, I had to look to the floor when out so I couldnât âlook at menâ, I wasnât allowed to breastfeed in public, I had to account for every second of my day
Just a few examples. The WhatsApp conversation is in reference to when he used the fact he knew someone involved in the shooting of a 7 year old boy to intimidate me. Just to clarify, the child he flaunts on his Facebook isnât my son, he does not have any contact with my son.
He made a Facebook profile of me after I broke up with him FULL of nude pictures of me heâd taken without me knowing and added everyone on my friends list - the polices response was âwe donât know much about Facebookâ
Itâs sickening that he still continues to get away with stuff like this. The things Iâve spoke on are truly just the tip of the iceberg. Iâm just thankful that my son is protected now but I feel so deeply sorry for his other child and the mother of that child.
I held myself back from speaking out fully for years because I was scared of the consequences but now I keep seeing more and more awful behaviour being brought to light I feel safe to speak
Also to clarify again - the person who was jailed for 6 years in 2016 on drug related charges is not him. He was dragging me through the family courts during that time, not in prison.
Some people like to discredit my experience and the abuse I suffered by using the fact I do sex work as some kind of justification. FYI- I started selling pictures initially on adultwork AFTER the abuse as a way to feel like I had full autonomy of my body again
Sex work has actually helped me so much in terms of that aspect of the abuse. He chose to try and use my sex work against me in family court, he attached leaked nude images of me as âevidenceâ in his statement , he wrongly accused me of escorting
But the judge literally said âwhat has that got to do with the price of fishâ. I could have also gone ahead with revenge porn charges due to what he included in his statement but I chose not to due to the severe amount of stress I was already under.
I have full custody of my son and we both have absolutely nothing to do with him. I hope that everyone in an abusive situation can find the strength to leave.
