Something I truly dislike about the terves (and fandom antis who borrow from them and how that& #39;s leaked into discourse generally) is the concept of "you& #39;re only disagreeing because you want to do/be Horrible Thing X for real" and "my stance is safe, better safe than sorry" 1/???

And I get that I& #39;m a hypocrite because I& #39;ve *been* like this with a couple "safety stances" and you can probably think of the ones. It& #39;s *because* this is so deeply buried within me, myself, from that, that I find it very difficult to get around and this thread is to try 2/?

Reasons you might disagree with what seems like a Good Moral Stance, 1 (and the most important): your own lived experience says otherwise, the person with that stance is operating off theory alone, and you *are not* operating in false consciousness