I& #39;ve been quiet about this but i was sexually assaulted again for the 3rd time on the 12th of this month. I wanna share my story to let people know it is NOT OKAY. (thread)
So my male friend had an apartment he was staying at and he hasn& #39;t seen me in a long time, and he asked for me to come just so we can chill so I came. He told me it was just him and his boy there so I said that& #39;s fine.
We were all playing a game, after the game, his male friend told me to come up to him alone because he wanted to "chat to me for a sec" around the corner (outside of the main room - so my friend wasn& #39;t able to see what was about to happen)
He started coming up in my face, and said "What are you on" before he even gave me a chance to answer, he shut the door & grabbed me up against the wall and started getting up in my face again.
I said to him "please stop" & he didn& #39;t, he carried on touching my body & even my thighs and inappropriate areas, & again i said "No stop" & he FINALLY backed off me as my voice began to get louder.
When i came back to address what happened to my friend his excuse was "i thought she was on it" those words actually broke my soul bc i was so objectified. My friend caused a scene, and cancelled him. I was told by some it was my fault for going over & for dressing how i did.
It& #39;s never the victims fault. You can never change a abuser from being one. I made this thread to address that NO MATTER WHAT A WOMAN IS WEARING, SHE IS NOT ASKING FOR IT. IT DOES NOT MATTER IF SHE COMES TO AN AP, SHE IS NOT "ON IT"