Just a reflection kulendzaba ya #CabVsPublic itolo, Aunty Simile thinks there a number of lessons to take and lots of homework for this generation. Good morning #SundayTiniTwitter

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Every time there& #39;s a blame game between two parties, seat back and reflect on what the causal issues are. My diagnosis on the #CabVsPublic issue is this. There are societal expectations on some parties which the other may or may not be aware of, or may or may not afford.

Society expects men to grow up faster and mature much early than women so that they take responsibility for their roles as men. Economic conditions unfortunately are against them. More and more men are failing to take full responsibility because there are no jobs but yet...

In their late 20s and 30s they need to be dating seriously and settling down. There is an incapacity, an imbalance here which tends to be filled by families. Women have to be more understanding in this instance, separating laziness from lack of opportunities. Some men do try..

The burden then lies on the women to a) be more accepting to genuine issues of inability to be supported by the bf and b) to raise financially affluent men in order to break this cycle. Remember I& #39;m not talking about useless, lazy folks here, I& #39;m quoting for genuine cases...

We all have some work to do. Guys ke on the other hand, the burden is for life, carry your cross of being responsible and understanding with wisdom knowing that ultimately you must grow up, own up, hussle and become a responsible, respectable man, closing this gap! Aluta! https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😅" title="Smiling face with open mouth and cold sweat" aria-label="Emoji: Smiling face with open mouth and cold sweat">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😅" title="Smiling face with open mouth and cold sweat" aria-label="Emoji: Smiling face with open mouth and cold sweat">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😅" title="Smiling face with open mouth and cold sweat" aria-label="Emoji: Smiling face with open mouth and cold sweat">