It& #39;s wild to me that this is such a fucking red hot point of conflict when gay men are like "I& #39;m gay" and bi men are like "I& #39;m gay too" and both laugh over it before one goes down on the other. https://twitter.com/CarcinoGrievous/status/1263526787897864192">https://twitter.com/CarcinoGr...

I& #39;m deliberately being obtuse and ignoring the societal dynamic whatevers between women and men

But men seem more chill about it simply between eachother

But what the fuck do I know, I& #39;m a femcel

Lesbian functions as more of an explicitly exclusive distinction whereas Gay is now more of a catch-all.

Perhaps many people feel bi or pan is not (cool) enough, makes them a fake gay (apparently) or that Homoromantic doesn& #39;t roll off the tongue quite like Lés Bien

I guess I& #39;m exhausted that, like other lgbt conflicts, it& #39;s settled in war of attrition style and is just generally an ugly, petty discourse.

I think it& #39;s worthwhile to understand the protectionism of lesbian in a historical sense before paving it over with conceited arguments.