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LRT read that shit. And if you think I’m not talking about you, I am
It’s hard to be definitive because boundaries are different from person to person in my sphere but a good rule of thumb is that if I literally never reply to you on here/don’t follow you, I’m probably uncomfortable with the way you engage with sexuality towards me.
The thing I want you all to know is that I get uncomfortable when people make either themselves/their arousal the focus. And/or when it’s clear people are getting off to the fact that I’m sexually open as opposed to respecting it. ESPECIALLY if we have literally zero friendship.
Some of my favorite mutuals who I love to be filthy with are people who recognize that we are creating community by standing side by side side like the king of the hill characters, looking at sexy art and sipping drinks like “baseball boys? Right?” “...yup.”
You’re allowed for sure to think my art is hot. And you’re even allowed to think it’s sexy that I make adult art. But what makes me uncomfortable is when the ONLY time people interact with me shows that they only associate me with their horniness. To the point of projecting (...)
sexuality onto things that I’m just out here shitposting about. Some of you might find this as a total shock but sometimes I’m actually not horny. 
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙄" title="Face with rolling eyes" aria-label="Emoji: Face with rolling eyes">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙄" title="Face with rolling eyes" aria-label="Emoji: Face with rolling eyes">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙄" title="Face with rolling eyes" aria-label="Emoji: Face with rolling eyes">
I hate being mean and mad about this!!!! But please recognize that this puts me in a very uncomfortable position and gives me a lot of stress. Overt friendliness and elbow nudging like “ehh? EhhHHHHH?” Really really only works with people who I have a good rapport with.
I also want to say this as nicely and gently as possible, while I’m at it: if I’m interested in someone, I make moves to make it happen. You’d know if I were interested in you.
But for the record since we’re on the subject, I am seeing someone right now and not interested in other partners at the moment and that is that on that for now.
It’s hard to explain because I generally don’t mind being flirted with and desired and stuff, and I especially love it when people send me art or things related to baseball or whatever, it’s great. It’s hard to describe but i really can tell when you’re just sitting there (...)
waiting for me to shut up so you can whack it to the thought of me being nasty. https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😪" title="Sleepy face" aria-label="Emoji: Sleepy face"> There’s really only a couple bad eggs in the bunch but it’s enough to make me feel perilous sometimes.
I’m probably gonna regret this thread tbh
Cheat sheet for MY personal boundaries:
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="✅" title="White heavy check mark" aria-label="Emoji: White heavy check mark">”Wow this art is really hot!”
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="✅" title="White heavy check mark" aria-label="Emoji: White heavy check mark">”Man your art really turns me on”
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="✅" title="White heavy check mark" aria-label="Emoji: White heavy check mark">”Your selfie looks really cute”
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="✅" title="White heavy check mark" aria-label="Emoji: White heavy check mark">Sending me pictures/things related to baseball, etc
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="⚠️" title="Warning sign" aria-label="Emoji: Warning sign">Slightly spicy comments directed at me as a person
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="⚠️" title="Warning sign" aria-label="Emoji: Warning sign">Sending me naughty memes
As an example for the latter one: things like “haha this [drawing of a dude jerking off] reminds me of being a teenage boy” or “ha ha My junk is bigger than your character’s” or whatever
