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I stayed quiet on this for over a year and now that’s she deactivated and I’m finally saying my side on this. I called out deb @/gothsharpe over a year ago for her transphobic and manipulative behavior and in return I got canceled because everyone thinks she can do no wrong +
I had proof and I had people after people that had similar experiences or witness mine and I had so much of the Tom fandom block and cancel me because they thought I was lying cause their great deb could never. Well she’s did and I’m here to say she has several times since then.
* I deleted all my ss a few months back to just move on because she caused me great emotional damage so y’all believe me if you want but there are so many Tom stans that can back up what I’m saying but I’m saying this no matter what*
Okay so when I became friends with deb I had already heard whispers that she had done shit in the past. I don’t know the full details of those but from what I get she said some really transphobic things that made a lot of my moots uncomfy but I still gave her a chance
We were friends for a few months but I actually developed feelings for her. After that we to me were “dating” but she would always tweet about how she was straight and in love with Tom but then come into my DMs talking about how much she liked me. She did the same to others. +
Deb literaly faked being lgbt then. I don’t know if she has since came@out or how she identifies but last year she was identifying as straight but telling other people she had crushed on them and would date them. +
She got super manipulative around the holidays. She would get upset at me for bringing up some of the things she tweeted and tell me “I’m your only friend on here. If you lose me you got no one” at this time she was also manipulative to others but I can’t speak for them +
She also mosgendred me constantly and@would make a big deal about it anytime I or someone else would try to correct her. Instead of just apologizing she would go on this whole rant about how I knew she wasn’t English and couldn’t hold that against her
Right before I went to ace Arizona to started tweeting a lot of really iffy offensive things. She would tweet how lesbians couldn’t exist cause Tom does and would make comments about how she knew Tom liked his stans to sexualize him. She sexualized to an uncomfy point +
After ace everything fell apart. Someone made a thread about her manipulative behavior and transphobic tweets (she said that anyone should be able to change their gender when they please) and that’s when I realized how she was treating me so I made@my own thread. +
Since making that thread I have regretted it. The hate and threats and the ugly side of the to fandom I saw. The people came in swarms and they still do to tell me that I was lying and deb had never hurt anyone at this time there was like 15 people exposing her at the same time
So after that thread I kept quiet. I just stopped interacting with anyone I saw be friends with her because she really fucked me up. I had to go to therapy and I suffer from ptsd from it. She manipulated me and used me and made me question everything.
A few months after I and@others exposed her I saw more people@exposing her. This time for being a joker stan. Not just a regular old joker stan but she constantly sexualized his mental illness and it made a lot of people uncomfy so once again my thread came@back to light!
I’m thankful for that because a lot of people realize then that she wasn’t a very good person and that she has hurt a lot of people. I still got so much hate but to me I was just happy that people were getting away from her even if it was just a few.
Things had been pretty quiet so I thought wow maybe she has changed. Maybe she has become better. She hasn’t. Over the last few months I’ve received DMs from people telling me that she had manipulated them. She doesn’t ever stop and I don’t think she ever will.
When ace Boston got cancelled she started tweeting how she was so happy that people weren’t able to meet Tom. How they didn’t deserve it. How Tom was being saved from meeting horrible people when she’s the horrible person in this.
I think the worst time out of all of this is when not even that long ago she made a thread over this and victimized herself and I had to watch all my closest moots believe and support her. I had to watch as something that left me in the hospital get turned around.
She has continued to make herself the good guy and me the bad one. She will never own up to her mistakes and truly show she is better. She victimized herself and she took away my ability to get better when she did. She holds a power over me because of her following
This was last month but a few people were tweeting about how she had started tweeting that Tom is a lesbian which is extremely invalidating to the lesbian community. I mean it wasn’t just one tweet it was several and a layout and in her bio. For however long +
She was pushing that Tom Hiddleston a cis male was part of the lesbian community and people actually let her and supported her. It’s so scary how much people have let her get away with. How they don’t question her or call her out.
I’m making this thread because I am taking her power over me back. Starting today she won’t have the control she had over me. She can say whatever she wants but my full honest truth is out there for all to see. I’m sorry for my moots that have gotten wrapped up in this
