Try cooking something you love! A dish you had at a friend’s house, something from a fave restaurant. A human made that! There are definitely exceptions (hard technique, special equipment) but if you’ve eaten it, you can probably make it, with research, YouTube, and practice.
That last tweet dedicated to a friend who I won’t tag but whose mind was blown when they realized they could make a quesadilla at home.
Read the whole recipe before you start. If you don’t know what a technique means, google it or take a couple seconds to watch a video. That weird detail about folding or creaming or reducing or simmer vs. boil, it actually does matter, but most likely you can learn it quickly.
Lastly, reach out and ask a friend. It has brought me these last few weeks to talk about food from friends I might not normally hear from. I *love* talking about food. Call your grandma and ask her for that one recipe. She’ll be thrilled.