How to choose a good husband: A guide for lost women and struggling feminists.

The most important aspect when choosing a good man is to not judge him based on his bank account balance. Money can always be earned.
Never pursue surfer types. Those might be fun for a day or two, but surfers are best left as friends. Do you really see yourself cleaning his stinky toilets for the rest of your life while he is day dreaming? Beach sand doesn& #39;t feed mouths of your future children. Next
Never go after abusive men. The bad boy thing gets old very quick. Alcohol, drugs, and anger are a bad combination. Think of your future children, of staying just because you& #39;re afraid for him... It& #39;s not worth it. Next.
Never go after men who have unhealthy eating habits. Yes I mean the men who are over 300 pounds. If he cannot take care of himself, how can he take care of you and the children? This rule works for both sides. Never date or marry obese women either.
Make sure your mans friends are not behaving like immature clowns. Do their pants drop to their ankles? Do they bleach their teeth? Does he wear shirts with inappropriate slogans? Does he drink every day? Next.
Never invest time in men who are still being breastfed by their mommies. They are not ready for a real woman in their lives, and quite frankly, you will be entering a war zone. If she still makes his bed, and he needs to see her every week, move on. A healthy distance is needed.
Never get yourself into a care-taker situation. If his mother is widowed he might feel the need to entertain/take care of her. However he MUST be willing to move out with you, every couple needs alone time, space for themselves to enjoy their time together.
Never invest in men who spend more time taking care of their own appearance than being productive. You will just end up feeling alone, miserable, like you don& #39;t matter. There is a big difference in a career & ambitions, and flexing in the mirror 20x a day in self admiration.
Avoid men who cannot repair anything. Down the line if something breaks in your house, you don& #39;t want to call in the handyman for every small thing. That& #39;s where lust comes in. Avoid this issue from the beginning. Find a man who knows how to use a hammer and a drill.... Serious
Find a man who isn& #39;t a pushover. Men who you can stomp on, or buy you flowers for every occasion, have mental problems. These types are best left as friends, you can take them to the nail salon, or clothes shopping. These are qualities of a woman. Treat these men like women.
Find a man who likes to cook, who has a healthy sexual drive, but isn& #39;t into weird stuff like star wars fantasies, or S&M. A man who doesn& #39;t ask you to wear a chain around your neck in public to show off his dominance and ownership over you. That& #39;s for losers with no confidence.
Make sure your future man wants to have children. Career type men sometimes forget that time is ticking. Tick Tock. Ticking away. Each day, they get older, and your time to enjoy your future children is fading away.
You should know within 3 months if you want to marry them. Time goes quickly. If he doesn& #39;t get that vibe, move on. Men are like women, if they know they know. The ones who wait for the right moment, for the stars to line up, wait too long. The stars never ever line up.
Stop wasting your life on relationships because of pity, not the right time to move, not having another living situation. Your life and time is on a clock. Each day miserable is a wasted day. Don& #39;t try to fix broken glass.
Lastly choose a leader, not a follower. Get your own shit together, and know what you bring to the table. Be prepared to serve him, birth babies, bow to him when he gets home. The traditional life really is the best life.

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