Lemme tell you something: Age does not matter. Marriage does not matter. Kids does not matter. Repeat after me.

These numbers are for those people who has family as their life goals. If you& #39;re one of those, feel free to join the age-race, but not me.

The heck: people can marry at 25 and have their firstborn at 37. People can also adopted a child at 21 and becoming grandparents before 40 if your child impregnate/d at their 18.

Age does not matter.

You& #39;re 28, married, never really in love. At 30, your firstborn, love of your life. At 33, you found another love, this time it& #39;s real. At 35, you filed divorce, approved and your child would be in your ex& #39;s care. At 64, you have no grandchild.

Marriage does not matter.

At 51, your kids has their own life. You does not matter. Spouse became life-long friend, but passed away before 60. You are alone, resenting the life you& #39;re given for another 20 years.

Kids do not matter.

Look, I didn& #39;t imply that you shouldn& #39;t get married. Please do, if only the reason are fit for you.

Do not marry because of ideal age, scared of loneliness, or worse: & #39;biar banyak rezeki& #39;. Do marry because it makes you happy. You& #39;ll take the responsible of the risks.