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Alright, I just need to say this because it breaks my heart that some clients have shame around this: hiring a SW but not having sex with them is actually very common!
A thread.
A thread.
Whether your body isn& #39;t cooperating with you that day, or traditional p in v penetration wasn& #39;t what you were after in the first place, this happens more often than folks think. If you& #39;re body isn& #39;t doing what you want, I promise you, a SW is *not* going to be offended.
There are a million and one other ways to explore one another& #39;s bodies, receive pleasure, experience intimacy and feel relaxed/invigorated. We ourselves have experienced our bodies not always reflecting our desires, believe me: we get it.
And if you just don& #39;t want penetrative sex to begin with, great! Let& #39;s explore. I& #39;ve had clients who only wanted a blow job because they haven& #39;t had one in 10 years, or a cute giggly back rub and cuddle session. It& #39;s all fair game (within the providers boundaries, duh) and
it just breaks my heart when a clients face drops and they say "I& #39;m sorry" all shameful when they can& #39;t "perform". Y& #39;all have no idea how common your experience is, and it& #39;s because it& #39;s stigmatized for men to talk about their bodies/feelings AND to hire SWs, that they never get
to talk to one another to figure this out in the first place. So I& #39;m here to tell you, you ain& #39;t that special. I& #39;m kidding! But seriously: bodies are weird and sometimes people get boners or are wet and they& #39;re not turned on, and then other times when the moment to shine arrives
and nothing& #39;s going on downstairs. I just needed to say something, in the hopes that someone will read this who mighta been feeling bad about themselves. You& #39;re not alone. And it goes without saying that this all applies outside of SW/client dynamic too, duh.
Don& #39;t let TV, music videos and porn dictate what sex and intimacy should look like for yourself (and especially try not to let porn dictate how a body should function.) If anything, that& #39;s why us SWs are here: to explore intimacy in a safe, nonjudgemental setting.
You all deserve to know your bodies, to listen to your bodies, to respect your bodies, and to experience the most orgasmic pleasure your heart desires. That is all.
Happy Sundays, good luck getting back to the grind tomorrow.
Happy Sundays, good luck getting back to the grind tomorrow.
