Took us 3 years of dating to find a communication style that works for us. Love ain’t for kids, y’all. You gotta find that balance between “not about to let nobody play me” and “I’m fighting for this because it’s what I want”. It’s a fine line to walk, but it’s there.

Lmao if y’all think I literally mean dating for 3 years, please keep scrolling. Your comprehension level isn’t ready for the conversation

Clarification: dating includes the timeframe from meeting and hitting it off to being in a committed relationship. Ain’t nobody doing that “talkin stage” bullshit for 3 years

There has been. And I have gotten past it. I wanna be clear tho and say I’m not at all saying that anybody should accept cheating just because I accepted it. I made a decision to forgive and not forget.

For ppl asking me questions, I’m not a love coach lol. But I am a psych major and I’m happy to share my experience w y’all, but everybody’s is gon be different. Overall just be receptive, if somebody arguing it’s bc they care enough to argue.

If you’re listening to respond instead of listening to understand, y’all will never find any common ground and the issue is likely to arise again in the future. Y’all have a good weekend and I hope 2020 brings u what u need https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="✨" title="Funken" aria-label="Emoji: Funken">