OK, the thing is, this is a really unusual thing to do and it& #39;s totally possible this person has something going on themselves that makes it difficult to control what they say OR know whether it& #39;s inappropriate in the first place.
Remember the woman who got monstered online for not letting someone stand in her doorway? She& #39;s living with autism and t was making her anxious, nothing to do with race.
One of the major issues, ironically, about the whole public shaming, cancel culture, everyone/everything has to be totally totally PC (I agree people should not be dicks BTW, which is basically what being PC means, it& #39;s the fallout for people who can& #39;t that concerns me here)...
...or a major drama occurs things is it totally assumes that everyone is deliberately being a c**t or even aware that whatever they& #39;ve just done would upset anyone.
It& #39;s just really ironic that people with special educational needs, mental health crises or disability etc. are both invisible in this process *and* arguably more likely to inadvertently find themselves at the hard end of it.