Hi! I've had a couple of folks ask me how I justify my language use on SM when I am an educator (gasp!). Here's how!
https://twitter.com/ShawnaCoppola/status/1278294660746825728
https://twitter.com/ShawnaCoppola/status/1278294660746825728
I am a grown woman.
I know I look young, but I am 45 whole entire years old!
I can be a (often excellent) and (occasionally terrible) educator *while also* using the F word among family, friends, and followers. Cool, right?!?
"Fuck" and "motherfucker" and "fuckface" are reeeeally fun to say, even in my head! Read @AmandaMontell's book WORDSLUT to learn why it's so satisfying to some folks! 

https://www.harpercollins.com/9780062868879/wordslut/


https://www.harpercollins.com/9780062868879/wordslut/
I do choose carefully when and where to use certain language (like asshole fuckface dickhead etc.), knowing there may be consequences for that language, depending on the audience/context, and I teach my own kids to do the same!
You may also want to check out @monaeltahawy's excellent work (see link for example), because BIWOC are tone-policed even more frequently than WW like me, and it's really really important to acknowledge that kind of fuckery: https://lithub.com/mona-eltahawy-civility-will-not-overturn-the-patriarchy/
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