What do you do about a smear campaign? You cut your losses & walk away. Narcissists are master manipulators, so everyone is believing them. Trying to defend yourself looks worse. The Narcissist paints you as crazy.
Panicking & trying to save face just backs up what the Narcissist is saying about you. Healthy people question smear campaigns. No one who blindly follows your abuser isn’t toxic. Cut your losses, heal, and come back & explain yourself to those who are important.
Do not try to get revenge. I know it’s hard, and we are angry, but don’t. You’ve met someone dangerous, who doesn’t have empathy and remorse, and who isn’t scared of you. They spend their whole lives just waiting to be provoked. Do not try to smear them back. https://twitter.com/Delilah17237654/status/1263900828315693056
If you try to hurt them, they will hurt you right back, & a lot worse. at best, you guys will still be stuck in that toxic relationship. at worst, it could cost you your freedom, or possibly your life. #narcissisticabuse https://twitter.com/Delilah17237654/status/1263900963321995265
With a Narcissist, “revenge” doesn’t exist, & attempting to save face doesn’t work. it’s hard, but the only thing you can do is cut your losses, & move your life away from that danger. get as far away as you can, & heal over time. #smearcampaign #narcissism https://twitter.com/Delilah17237654/status/1263901152745107457
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